July 27, 2012
Aubrey Lamar - Softball
Today we did not use our hands as much as we used our hearts. After breakfast at the hotel in Adama, we traveled to the women-only maternity house in Ethiopia. Once we got there, the two women who run the facility told us about the program and the different opportunities offered to the women living there. The facility provides rooms for 12 pregnant women to stay for about a year. During the 12 months, the women are taught a skill in order to support themselves and their baby in the near future. The women will start working using what they learned while they are there. Half the money each woman makes goes into a personal savings account that will allow the women to have a financial starting point once they leave the maternity house and the other half goes to help the facility. This maternity house is an amazing place. There's a beautiful garden inside the main gate that includes many varieties of native plants as well as food for those living at the house, like the seven-foot tall stalks of corn. There are so many women in Ethiopia that could benefit from this great maternity house.
This week, I have been struggling with being overwhelmed with the number of people who are in need of food, shelter, or most importantly and something that doesn't cost a dime (or a birr)...love. I have been reminded this week that one person cannot save a country; it takes many people with a common goal. However, I can make a small impact on the few people I come in contact with during this trip. I am so thankful that Ethiopia at least has one maternity house and can make a small impact on the lives of women.
Next, we hopped back on the bus to visit an orphanage/widows home. Jason, our group leader was very excited to visit the facility because Joker Philips and some of the football players who came with him for previous trips planted beautiful plants right in front of the facility. They must have done a wonderful job, because the facility was absolutely gorgeous. The plants they had planted just last May had now grown and filled the space completely. The building is square with the rooms on the outsides while the center is a courtyard with a sky roof. I loved the sky roof because I could feel God's presence shining down on them once you walk in the door. While we were there, we played with the young children in the nursery and learned the stories of the widows. At first, the children were very shy and some cried, however once we showed them that we were there to play; we all started having a great time. The children are very well taken care of at this facility and most of them are adopted through the help of the facility. After playing with the children, I went and sat down with Vickie Bell, Brooke, and Megan to spend some time with the amazing widows who live there. A particular woman shared her heart with us. More than half of her conversation was her saying God bless us and that she will be praying for us. She knows we have much more than her back in the United States, yet she wants us to be blessed. I have met some of the most incredible people with the biggest hearts here in Ethiopia. The people have basically nothing, yet they want others to be blessed before themselves.
After we left the home, we made our long journey back to Addis Ababa. The traffic was bad and made the trip much longer. We have a great driver, although he makes my heart stop many times as he swerves in and out of lanes across rough dirt roads full of muddy deep holes. The only way I can describe the motor transportation here is that drivers use their horn instead of the brakes. There is no way this system would work in America. Once we got close to Addis Ababa, we stopped at a market where people with leprosy make beautiful crafts and sell them. I was in complete shock to see the men and women working on these absolute gorgeous blankets, and other cloth items. Everything made by hand using cotton and stitching the designs using thread. So much time and talent are put into each craft made by the people working there.
Dinner was exciting; the team went to a traditional restaurant that included dancing and music. Personally, I am not a big dancer, but I loved watching some of our team try the interesting style of dance. The native dance included a lot of fast shoulder movements and quick foot stepping. Some of the team then taught the wobble to the some of the local dancers. It was a night that everyone was able to enjoy local culture and talking with each other.
This trip has been a wonderful opportunity for all of us student-athletes. Thank you to everyone who made it possible.